Crying in His Cornflakes
2007-11-27
Spoke with my lovely husband yesterday. Called him on "business" only to let him know what the deal was on getting the jeep in my name only and about the bills for December he is responsible for. He keep trying to interrupt with the "I've been thinking" line, but I just talked right over him. Then, he says he's been thinking a lot and crying too. Yeah right.
I told him he gets no sympathy from me. He walked out on me. He told me he was happy and our marriage wasn't going to "work out". Gone for a month and now he's crying? What took him so long? I guess he finally figured out I wasn't kidding. I had told him before I was willing to try marriage counseling and he claimed he would go too. Only catch was he had to find a doctor & set an appointment. I won't do it because he will claim I convinced the doc everything is only his fault, etc (been there before). He never made any effort. Hell, he never made an effort to do anything to resolve our problems. Just put all the blame on me. I told him after he left I wasn't going to play this game. He can't leave, do whatever he wants with whomever, then expect me to sit idly by. He was waiting for me to accept responsibility for everything and beg him to come back. Too bad I'm finally strong enough not to fall for that. Not deperate enough that I need him in my life that bad. I told him I was tired of being responsible for everything and I meant it. I hope he really is crying. He should be.
Barnabus (2007-11-27)
hehe love yer little 'basketball' player!!!
You gotta do what you gotta do! Perhaps he is serious, but too much water has passed under the bridge!! Perhaps too he is just realizing all he has lost, and wants to try and recover it for a better time!!
Mary Mary Quite Contrary (2007-11-27)
YOU GO GIRL! :D
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